Do you know what hurts? This is the fact that you are not even noticed no matter how hard you try to show that you are here but for others, you are not. #reality
I hope everyone feels that at least once they are valued. The treatment should be equal for everyone feels that they are important and their work is seen. #reality
You can wave the hand to a car and friendly people will realize it means "thank you" while aggressive drivers will honk and think you wanted to blaim them. That is proyection. Everyone creates his own #reality.