I would not automatically feel obligated to do so, but I can imagine many cases where I definitely would do it. Helping local community can have many important good effects.
In fact, maybe "producing monster-kids" is the outlier case, and in most cases you almost only improve the community by doing these things. I am just a arm-chair philosopher here
For me though, it would not take much identity politics, talk of "patriarchy", communist ideology or other such things to decide that my good intentions should be steered elsewhere.
I sometimes offer minor charity, often observing polarizing effect.
Some respond in kind,
others act like carnivores smelling blood.
Charity reveals like a litmus test, fascinating.
There is a video series of a woman getting redpilled, I find it to be nice entertainment. The (now) last in the series touches "our" issues:
