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replied 2027d
Sure, but how you find the method to communicate with the one whom used to force you take all the faults?
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Take the fault then divert it, share it. that's what i usually do. If you don't show aggression chances are they wont get defensive.
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Some people loves to attacks the other even there was a peaceful attitude towards them. Means that if you take the fault first, they will assume you took all...
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Can't deny the truth of that, we all have our own way of dealing with things, as for me i prefer it ending before it gets worse cause that's what the other person always wants.
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I was same opinions with you, but after be bullied by people around me even I chose peaceful solution, I learned that dealing with the faults might lead you to other worse situations
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It's not easy, but sometimes, accepting another person's faults will help you deal with your own.
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Yes, this is really true with my situation currently. However, I admit that I sometimes don't really want to control, accept and be patient.