It seems you have so strong feelings about this that I think it is better that I do not go on with this, even though I think you are wrong about most of what you are saying atm.
its my personal opinion derived from my personal experience, just like you have a different opinion on the topic, there is no right or wrong
Sometimes I think answering people will do more harm than good. I though this might be one of those cases, now I feel like answering at least some of your comments.
You misunderstand slightly. In the recent past I thought it might do more harm than good. Now I am not so sure. I suggest you make your own choices of whether you want to read or not