I have been talking to people on the street. So easy to fall into old pattern of "quarrel" instead of being calm and letting things unfold and so on. And there is a simple reason.
I used the wrong word "push".
What I mean is pushing to find key points of leverage to revise the conversation from
obey/disobey into more of a "we have a better way coming".
Oh, I suppose you can disregard my other comment about "pushing" then. :)
